If I had a million dollars

I'd buy a lot of clothes. After hoarding gift certificates for almost a year, I went on a shopping bonanza. It was my reward for losing my baby weight and surviving the first three months with three kids. Outside of all my gift certificates and gift money I only spent $21 of my own money. I walked away with five tops, a dress, a skirt, a pair of pants, and a pair of shorts from Ann Taylor and a skirt, two tank tops, and a pair of jeans from Banana Republic. For a person who hasn't bought new clothes for herself in a long long time, this was well over due. I can't wait to get dressed tomorrow!

After an afternoon of shopping with Greg and Dane (Greg's parents took Aubrey and Nathan while Dane went with us since he thinks bottles are poisonous), Greg and I got a dinner to ourselves. We went back to Greg's parents place, I fed Dane, and we fled to dinner. Greg's parents even treated us! We ordered big people food like Ahi Tuna and Chicken stuffed with crab, held hands across the table, had a drink, and talked. Uninterrupted. It was glorious. And when we brought the kids home tonight we were refreshed and ready to parent out precious babies again. THANK YOU DOUG AND MARIAN!!!!!!!

Time for pictures

The kids getting love from their Great Grandparents in Montana
My little Dane at three months old
Nathan, showing off his potty training skills in ADORABLE big boy underwear
...and more underwear
Two of my men, ready to go for a walk
The cutest little Aubrey girl you've ever seen

You know you don't live in the city...

...when you go for a drive, not more than ten minutes from your house, and you come across someone raising six bison and another someone raising a herd (literally) of caribou/reindeer. We have known about the bison for a long time and take the kids for a drive to see them from time to time. Yesterday we extended our drive a bit further and stumbled upon 30 or more reindeer. They were right up against the fence, eating, and we couldn't decide what they were. Smaller than an elk and thicker, shorter than a standard deer, but big furry antlers (my dad informed me they were furry because they were immature and that it was called their "velvet" antlers) and white butts. It was Greg who first suggested they might be reindeer and I essentially called him crazy. Reindeer only live on the Alaska tundra and Siberian plains. right?

The next step was consulting my dad, a person who grew up in the wilderness and knows about such things. After describing them he said they sounded like caribou. We looked caribou up on Wikipedia and it said caribou is the term for wild, North American reindeer. And the picture looked just like our local animals. Oh, and in case you are wondering, they are not native to Liberty Lake, they are native to areas much further north. I hope to talk to the owners someday and find out how on earth they came to have them. In the meantime we are enjoying our own private zoo, just down the road.

You're invited to my pity party

Between illness and Greg being out of town, sleep for mama has been in short supply.  I have reached crisis levels of sleep deprivation and judging from my meltdown last night I knew I had to make getting some rest a priority.  Today, it seemed as though the heavens were shining down upon me.  After a busy morning, ALL THREE KIDS were ready to sleep around 1:30.  I got everyone down, it was 1:45.  I literally ran, grabbed the softest blanket ever (thanks mom) and curled up on the couch.  Laundry and clean bathrooms be damned, I was going to sleep.  The next hour transpire as such:

*Nathan crying for his binky.  Me, out from underneath lovely blanket, upstairs, retrieve binky.  Back to nappy time.

*Dane, crying for no reason.  Me, up, feverishly searching for his binky and proceeding to pat him for five minutes until he went back to sleep.  Back to lovely blanket.  Almost asleep when...

*Aubrey, up to pee and "just check on you."

*Nathan, hack hack hack, crying for water.  Back up I go.

*Aubrey, wanting to sleep somewhere else because Nathan's coughing it waking her up.  I put her in our room where Dane is sleeping.

*Jingle jangle, jingle jangle.  Aubrey has found my cool metal belt which she is rattling.  

*Dane: WWWAAAAAAAHHHHHHH!  More patting to get him back to sleep.

*Aubrey:  "Mommy, will you sleep with me?"  I try, leaving lovely blanket behind and exchanging it for my precious daughter pulling my hair and waving puppy in my face to see if it would make me open my eyes.  It did.

*I try to rest on couch one more time, when, seriously, I hear Dane crying.  AGAIN.

This continued until about 10 minutes ago when I got Dane up (who promptly fell back asleep in my arms) and decided to just do the laundry and clean the bathrooms.  Except now it's time for Aubrey to get up and I hear Nathan calling my name.  Honestly, it was like the meanest cosmic joke ever.  Greg is so bringing dinner home tonight.

Single Mothers and other Saints

God never intended people to parent alone, of this I'm sure. Greg is out of town for most of this week for work and I'm here. ALONE. To be honest, I think the anticipation of his departure was worse than the reality. I have been stewing over this since I found out the middle of last week. And guess what? Today was fine. We played, did errands, did chores, and all the other things that we do in a day. But here it is, 10:30 p.m., and I'm taking a break from paying bills and folding clothes to do a little blogging. For any single mother out there, it is true that their work must never be done. My days are always busy but in the evening when Greg is home things get done. One of us can manage the kids while the other one whips the house into shape, cleans dinner dishes, puts away four loads of laundry, and takes out the trash. Without my dear partner all that stuff had to happen after the kids were in bed. So here I am, 10:30, without a bedtime in sight.

Having said that, Greg is mostly missed because we miss his company. I love it when he comes home and we talk about our days and take care of our family together and fall asleep snuggled in each others arms. The kids miss their giant jungle gym, the best reader of "Where the Wild Things Are" and the best bedtime prayer guy around. So, even though he's handy to have around the house, we'll be glad to have our main guy home just because he's so nice to have around.

p.s. Who would have though Kansas would win it all? Not me, I had NC beating UCLA in the finals. Just this week I was telling Greg how annoying I find it that these guys can't seem to shoot free throws. Then the coach of Memphis said during an interview that he didn't really worry about free throws and trusted his guys to make them when it counted. And then Memphis lost because they can't hit free throws. HA! I tell you what, if my kids play basketball they WILL learn to make free throws. They are FREE for heaven's sake.